Sadly, on the road we received news that dh dad wasn't feeling well. Testing reviled liver cancer. Over the course of two weeks it progressed from Not curable but treatable with chemo. To spreading no chemo advised 4 -8 months, to rapid now it's more like 4-8 weeks and he will move from independent living to assisted living/hospice care. All in the course of 15 days. Dh is there, I am not. We talked about it, and he said not to come. Sibs that weren't planning on arriving until June or July have been convince to come next week so decision can be made.